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In this issue:Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Postpartum Counseling, Construction Updates, FY25 Video Highlights, Welcome New Board Members, New Swag Store, and More!
If you or someone you know needs help, call: Domestic Violence Hotline at (877) 863-6338
Children Who Witness Domestic Violence Suffer Long-term Impacts
Domestic Violenceimpacts millions of individuals and families each year, including many of the youth we support at Shelter Youth & Family Services.
Shelter's recently promoted Clinical Director, Nicole Kawa, explains, “Domestic violence impacts the entire family system. Children who witness abuse are significantly impacted, even if they are not the direct target. They may experience PTSD, emotional struggles, developmental delays, and even carry forward patterns of abuse into their own relationships later in life.”
Nicole believes therapy can provide a safe and structured path forward and the Clinical Team at Shelter plays a critical role in helping children and families heal from the trauma of domestic violence. “All of our clinicians are trained in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), helping children and caregivers process trauma, rebuild self-worth, and learn healthy coping skills.” Some staff also bring specialized training in domestic violence treatment for even greater support.
A new partnership with Illinois Masonic Hospital called Moving Beyond Depression gives moms in Shelter’s Healthy Families Program access to postpartum depression counseling with a Spanish-bilingual therapist.
Postpartum depression affects many new mothers, yet stigma and barriers to care often prevent them from seeking the help they deserve. Lynn Puckelwartz, Shelter's Healthy Families Director, says, "By connecting families to trusted mental health professionals who understand their language and culture, Shelter is helping moms receive the support they need during one of life’s most transformative times."
Big strides are being made at our new home for survivors of human trafficking, the first DCFS-licensed home of its kind in Illinois. Our partners at S.I. Container Builds have officially placed the containers that will form the foundation of this safe, healing space and soon these custom-designed units will be transformed into a warm and secure home where young survivors will receive the safety, care, and dignity they deserve. Hear from CEO Carina H. Santa Maria and follow us on social media to see the progress.
Give a Long-Lasting Treat
Halloween is all about treats, and this year, we’re inviting you to share the sweetness in more ways than one. As you fill your candy bowls for trick-or-treaters, consider matching that spending with a gift that helps children and families facing crisis or recovering from trauma. Your kindness can bring comfort, healing, and hope to those who need it most. That’s a treat that lasts long after the candy is gone!
Because of your generosity in supporting our mission, fiscal year 2025 was a year of bold progress for Shelter Youth & Family Services. Together, we reached more young people than ever before, providing safety, stability, and hope for 661 youth, the most in Shelter’s 50-year history. Watch our recent roundtable with Shelter’s program directors and hear about the achievements they’re most proud of this year. Their passion, like yours, fuels our mission to protect children, strengthen families, and transform communities.
No Tricks, Just Treats We believe every season should bring moments of joy, especially for the youth in our care, and the season of cozy layers, hot cocoa, and fall adventures has arrived at Shelter! From pumpkin painting and trick or treating, to "Movie & Munch" pizza nights, together we are helping to create happy memories for young people who deserve all the warmth this season has to offer.
New Board Members Bring Expertise, Perspective, and Commitment
We are thrilled to welcome Angela Santello and Tom Drake to Shelter's Board of Directors.Angela Santello is a seasoned Commercial Banking Officer with over a decade of experience in portfolio management and client services. She is known for her skill in providing strategic financial solutions and building strong client relationships. Angela brings a deep commitment to her community and family, reflecting the same dedication and care that define Shelter Youth & Family Services’ mission to support children and families.
Tom Drake has built a career combining leadership, strategy, and community service across corporate, association, government, and small business sectors. He has served as CEO of Association Management Center and SVP at Edelman Worldwide and is currently a Partner at DLG Consultants, Inc. Tom is actively engaged in civic life as Past President of the Arlington Heights Park District Board and a member of the Zoning Board of Appeals. He remains dedicated to charitable initiatives supporting children, veterans, and individuals with disabilities.
Rep the Cause You Care About Shelter’s new swag store is officially open! When you shop our apparel, drinkware, and accessories, you’re not just showing your support — you’re helping children and families find safety, stability, and hope. Shop today!
Partners Making a Difference
Thanks to the invaluable financial support of the following organizations and charitable funds, more youth and families in our community found safety, stability, and hope.
Northfield Community Church Vernon Township Mental Health Board The Arboretum of South Barrington The Paz Family Foundation The Paschke Family Foundation The Sykes Family Charitable Fund Good Neighbors Network
DO YOU LOVE TO ORGANIZE? Our donation area needs a little TLC. Sign up to help us spruce up!
WISH LIST WORKERS WANTED Help make the holidays more meaningful for youth in our care by meeting with children and teens and helping them craft their holiday gift wish list.
Last week, volunteers helped sort and organize hundreds of winter coats, gloves, hats, and scarves for kids in our care. Thank you! Your support brings comfort and care when it’s needed most.
SHOWCASE LINKS COMMUNITY TO SERVICES AND VOLUNTEERING
Shelter joined local non-profit organizations on Saturday, October 18 at the Barrington Area Library for Community Connection Live, a nonprofit showcase. We love being out in the community and sharing Shelter's mission with prospective volunteers and supporters.
Shelter Youth & Family Services 1616 N. Arlington Heights Rd. Arlington Heights, IL 60004 24-Hour Referral Line: 847.255.8060 www.shelter-inc.org
Shelter Youth & Family Services is committed to providing safe, inclusive, and supportive resources for youth and families from all backgroundsand identities.
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