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About this Newsletter's Author: Kima Tozay is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a bereaved mom who is dedicated to supporting and advocating for those experiencing infertility and perinatal loss. Kima and a team of bereaved mothers, were instrumental in getting the Certificate of Birth Resulting in Stillbirth legislation passed in WA. She is a Return to Zero Hope board member and group facilitator. Kima is also the Secretary of PSI Washington's State Chapter and a member of the Snohomish County Perinatal Mental Health Taskforce. The importance of Maternal Mental Health Conversations: “One day you will tell your story of how you overcame what you went through and it will be someone else's survival guide” – Brené Brown In the Black community, mental health and reproductive concerns are not openly discussed. Black women tend to not ask for help and minimize their concerns for many reasons. Many people in my life were not even aware of the day to day battles I was enduring. My experience with mental health and reproductive issues started when I was a Sophomore in college. I noticed gradually each month my cycle became longer and heavier. A few months after being diagnosed with Anemia my menstrual cycle started and it did not stop—one month passed, two months passed, and on to the third month. I went to my OB/GYN and the doctor looked me in the eyes and stated, “you are fine, everyone’s cycle is different, and they can change.” She sent me home. Now I am not a medical doctor, but I can guess that this was not normal. I sought a second opinion, and I received the diagnosis of fibroids, a foreign term to me. I was now at the other end of the spectrum, going from I am fine to I was about to have immediate surgery without any explanation. It made me curious, why as Black women we do not discuss reproductive matters more often. About the Author: Danesha B. Deloatch, MS, LMFT, is a graduate of the Valdosta State University Marriage and Family Therapy Program. Danesha is licensed in WA state, her home state of Georgia, and is an AAMFT Clinical Fellow. Danesha currently works full time for the military and is the founder of Breaking Barriers Therapeutic Services, PLLC. Danesha is devoted to work with underrepresented populations improving access to clinical services for underserved populations. Why Culturally Matched Care Matters The Parent Education Resilience Collaborative (PERC) is PS-WA’s newest parent support program. This program focuses not just on the role of being a parent, it includes the whole person. Incorporating specialized peer support, wellness, and mental health strategies to increase parent resilience. To learn more, here is my interview with Latonia Westerfield, a Parent Resilience Specialist with the PERC Program. Below are a few excerpts from our conversation. "We need uncles, we need grandmas, we need aunties, we need everybody to be looking out for new parents... What I enjoy most about what I do is witnessing people recognize that they already have these skills and these tools inside of them and in their community... It’s about navigating systems in a way that fits you as a marginalized person or person who has historically had to be more resilient. When you are doing that with a person who comes from your community, you just get it. You get better support. It's more relaxed. A lot of my families say it’s like talking to a friend... I would really like people to know, particularly BIPOC, that there is nothing wrong talking about what you are feeling and experiencing. It doesn’t mean you are weak and not resilient." Wellness Tips for Black Mental Health
WARM LINE: 1-888-404-7763 (PPMD), Se habla español Support, Education, Referral With your support, we can shine a light on perinatal mood and anxiety disorders and give families the care they need. |